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How to Have Phone Sex: 5 Easy Tips and Tricks!

Hi everyone! I’m Sitara, your favorite Indian phone sex operator (PSO) over on NiteFlirt and your dominant nerdy Indian girlfriend! In today’s article, I’ll be writing about how to have phone sex, focusing exclusively on my top 5 tips. Before I get into my tips and tricks, if you’re new to phone sex or curious about it, you can read more about phone sex here!

Simply put, phone sex is having a sexually stimulating conversation on the phone. It’s existed for as long as people have talked on the phone, and many consider it an antiquated form of sexual fun. However, phone sex is alive and well in 2020, and millions of people continue to enjoy phone sex around the world.

Especially during these times where people are still locked down indoors, phone sex can be a fun way to explore your desires with your partner or with your favorite eye-catching and cock-throbbing adult entertainer!

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COVID-19 has, in many ways, brought back an old-school form of sexual pleasure, a form of auditory entertainment that many people crave and lack during these uncertain times. For some, phone sex provides a human voice in times of lack of human physical contact. For others, it’s a time to explore aural desire while maintaining distance from a current partner. This has led many people to think about how to have phone sex, especially how to have satisfying phone sex.

Whether you’re wondering how to have phone sex with a steamy zest with a PSO or your long-term partner (or both!), I’ll be sharing my top 5 tips on having the best phone sex from my encounters as a phone sex operator!

1. How to Have Phone Sex: Be Honest

This seems like such an overstated tip, but hear me out. Phone sex is so much more pleasurable and enjoyable when you can truly be yourself. Something I often find with many callers is that they often feel like they cannot express their desires or intimacies to their current partner(s). This lack of honest expression leaves them frustrated and confused with their partner(s). Whether you’re thinking about phone sex with your partner or PSO, think about what turns you on.

Is it a role play fantasy, such as a dominant professor or bossy co-worker? Does hearing a sexy woman do a cum countdown as she guides you on how to stroke your cock make your cock twitch? Is it listening to someone describe a part of their body, like their hairy pussy or slender legs or round ass cheeks? Does listening to your partner masturbate turn you on, knowing that you made them want to touch themselves? Or is it something else entirely?

Whatever it is, if you’re able to communicate with your phone sex partner about your desires and fantasies, you will have a much more pleasurable experience than you could ever imagine! A lot of people think that phone sex is just moaning and groaning until the other person comes, but it’s so much more than that. It’s forming a communication that brings out your desires and releases your inhibitions.

2. How to Have Phone Sex: Be Comfortable

Yes, you read that right. Get comfortable. One of the best tips I can give you on how to have phone sex is to make sure that you are comfortable and ready for it. Whether you’re thinking of taking this call in your car, walking the dog, working from home, sneaking in the bathroom at a party, or wherever, get comfy. The last thing you want is to be in the middle of a sultry phone sex session, and then BOOM, you’ve got a work call coming in or your dog ran off with the lease or your phone drops in the toilet (I’ve heard quite a few of these incidents!).

Unless one of your turn ons is to be left alone in the middle of a seductive session, you’re not going to enjoy your phone sex encounters without some privacy and comfort with your phone sex buddy! An issue people often have with wondering how to have phone sex is where to do it. I often recommend a quiet area, such as your bedroom, bathroom, or car, and have your supplies ready. Whether it’s your favorite sex toys, your box of tissues, lotion, or towel, have them nearby as well.

You most certainly don’t need to have the most comfortable position or everything ready before starting your phone call, but it helps to focus solely on your phone call instead of running to get your sex toys or lotion right as you’re about to cum! 😉

3. Be Open to Suggestions

One of the fun things about learning how to have phone sex is that you will learn a lot about phone sex if you spend a lot of time having phone sex. When I first started doing phone sex with my partner prior to becoming a PSO, there were so many things I learned that I never knew I liked until I did it. Hell, I learned more about the power and seduction of my voice from phone sex more than any other form of adult entertainment.

I didn’t know that it was so sexy to listen to someone’s voice change as they get ready to cum. Or that it was such a turn on knowing that someone’s breathing quivers in excitement as they listen to you tease and deny them over and over again. Or that listening to a man beg for permission to cum is so satisfying to my ears.

Listen to your phone sex partner to make sure you two are enjoying each other. Be open to each other’s suggestions and keep them in mind for future calls! I also recommend keeping a notebook nearby so you can write down any suggestions for future encounters!

4. Texting Before Calling

Often, guys on NiteFlirt message me, “Sitara, do I have permission to call you?” Now, you can cold call a PSO or your long-term partner and start phone sex. Keep in mind, though, that your long-term partner might be working or studying or doing something completely non-sexual and that they might not be in the sexiest of moods without a bit of notice.

Some PSOs also prefer it if a caller messages before, particularly if they’re never talked to you before to go over what I’ve talked about so far. Getting to know more about you, your desires, and interests before calling a PSO can save you time and money, especially if you’ve never done phone sex before or never called a PSO.

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Texting is also a great way to break the ice via text instead of phone, which is important for you shy, nervous, and eager phone sex peeps! Not seeing someone and engaging in a sexual conversation with them can be super intimidating, so that’s something to be aware of. Take your time and set the stage before having fun. There’s no need to rush!

5. Let Your Mind Wander

Often times, one of the biggest blocks on how to have phone sex is ourselves. I get so many callers wondering how they are how to have phone sex, let alone start a conversation with a gorgeous woman, without sounding like a spaz. Breathe, you’ll be OK. Many people have pre-conceived notions of phone sex prior to engaging in it, such as thinking you’re super weird or strange for liking phone sex. Or, gosh, I’m so shy or geeky, this will never be for me.

If you let negative thoughts consume you, you’ll never learn how to have phone sex, and you’ll always have mediocre phone sex if you do engage it. Let your mind wander, be yourself, and be open to learning something new. Whether it’s with a partner or PSO, let go of the negativity and social stigma around phone sex. Find someone you LOVE, can’t wait to talk to, and let the fun begin!

xo,

Sitara

Your Dominant Nerdy Indian Girlfriend

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